Faisla tumko bhool jaane ka... ek naya khwab hai deewane ka

Nice thought! It’s a beautiful life, and every day unravels numerous opportunities; to do things differently or to do different things. We make a choice at every point about what we do; it is true that our choices are half chances and so are everybody else’s; it still is a choice that 'we' make.

I have realized, that sometimes we choose certain things, only in the hope, that it will eventually turn into something different; the way we would like it to be. This often results in disheartenment, if things don’t turn out as we wished. And then, because we spent so much time trying to change things, we stick on, and wait with the hope that the change will soon happen. More often than not, such changes do not happen, and then we quit with bitter feelings.

Maybe, it is a good thing to make a choice based on things ‘as is’ rather than hoping for change. At least there is clarity that this was what we signed up for, and just this feeling will make us happy. If they change for the better, then it’s a bonus, else we are happy anyways.

Finally, the choice to get into something is as important as, to know when to get out of it. Too often, we get very attached to our choice and forget to move on.

I like the line, in this context…

Faisla tumko bhool jaane ka… Ek naya khwab hai deewane ka :)
A decision made, to forget you… The lover has a new dream now :)